Today, September 30, 2014, Intelligence Report from A Voice for Men and shrink4men.com airs another episode. Starting at 3 PM Pacific, 5 Central and 6 Eastern we will be discussing #heforshe, the Twitter Hashtag that has gone viral, and has also been under severe fire from non-feminists. Also, The Baltimore Sun has come out with an article By Susan Patton and Jonathan David Farley that puts a beating on the 1 in 5 college rape stats that have been tossed around like Halloween candy by the mainstream media and a large contingent of politicians in recent years. We will cover those and hopefully other topics as seen through the clarity of a red pill lens. As always, Paul Elam, Dean Esmay and Dr. Tara Palmatier will be leading the discussion live, with your comments welcome. http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-2762701/NFL-orders-staff-attend-domestic-violence-sexual-assault-classes-Roger-Godell-prepares-break-nine-days-silence-press-conference-today.html http://www.realclearscience.com/blog/2014/09/domestic_violence_crime_much_lower_among_nfl_players.html http://www.georgianewsday.com/news/national/166994-arizona-cardinals-cheerleader-and-iraq-war-vet-megan-welter-arrested-for-beating-boyfriend-over-flirty-text.html http://www.avoiceformen.com/women/adrian-peterson-proves-black-america-is-violent-and-baby-mamas-are-to-blame/ http://www.baltimoresun.com/news/opinion/oped/bs-ed-rape-statistics-20140928,0,7060764.story https://twitter.com/search?q=%23heforshe&src=typd
Of the many things that fathers from broken marriages endure, guilt can be one of the worst. There is guilt from the breakup of the family; from being removed from the daily lives of children. Worse than that, when the father comes from an abusive relationship, that guilt becomes a weapon used against him by the ex-wife. She uses it to extract money and cooperation, to continue her endless punishment of him for “failing” as her husband. She even trains her children in the same tactics, who learn to manipulate and control the absent father. While this is commonly the way these men have been treated when they were still married, it significantly worsens after the divorce resulting in alienation and often spilling over into whatever future relationships he might have. Please join shrink4men.com’s Dr. Tara Palmatier and avoiceformen.com’s Paul Elam on Wednesday, October 1, 2014 at 3:30 PM Pacific, 5:30 Central and 6:30 Eastern Time for an important episode for fathers, on Going Mental.
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Forewarned is forearmed and, when it comes to Crazy, ignoring the warning signs is not only foolish, it is potentially hazardous to your emotional and physical health. Sometimes you can see Crazy coming a mile away. Sometimes the Crazy is so overt you can see the red flags waving from outer space. In fact, sometimes Crazy will tell you straight up, “I’m crazy (LOL!)” on your first date. Here are some real life examples: There’s a huge woodblock of the word “Princess” in her apartment. Noting that Oprah doesn’t help men drives her into a frenzy of rage. When she rages at you for an hour plus on the phone, you can put the phone down, walk to the bathroom, pee, wash your hands, pick the phone back up and she doesn’t notice you left. She throws such a fit of rage at her 10-year old’s softball tournament that the park shuts down all the games, has every team meet in the middle of every field, and calls the cops on her. Her child is subsequently removed from the softball team and you are banned for life from the softball park. If you ignore the obviously crazy ones out of pity or the in the hopes of having “crazy sex,” you may well regret your recklessness later. Crazy is like Vegas — the house always wins. It’s very difficult to walk away from Crazy completely unscathed. Sometimes the red flags are more subtle, but present nonetheless. Stealth Crazy is trickier. These individuals often seem to have good excuses for their bad behavior when the mask slips during the love bombing phase. The high functioning ones (i.e., better able to hide the crazy) can often keep a lid on the crazy until after you legally bind yourself to her through marriage or children. Please join co-hosts Dr Tara Palmatier of Shrink4Men.com and Paul Elam of Avoiceformen.com and their guest Terrence Popp of Redonkulas.com at 9pm EDT, 8pm CDT and 6pm PDT for a more humorous take on dating red flags and/or neon flashing signs that say, “Danger! Crazy lady! Dive, dive!” tonight on Going Mental.
This is an interview I just had for the student newspaper of Amherst College. I challenged several of his contentions, e.g. rape culture (1 in 4 rape claim), wage gap, domestic violence statistics. Here is the data that debunks 1. The feminist domestic violence paradigm that only recognizes male perpetrators and female victims. http://www.csulb.edu/~mfiebert/assault.htm 2. The 1 in 4 rape fraud (it is actually 1 in 1,877) http://communityvoices.post-gazette.com/opinion/the-radical-middle/27667--one-in-one-thousand-eight-hundred-seventy-seven 3. The gender wage gap http://www.cbsnews.com/8301-505125_162-28246928/the-gender-pay-gap-is-a-complete-myth/ http://www.avoiceformen.com/video/wage-gap-debunked/